Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Finally

It's been about a month since I last posted, mostly because it's been a month since anything significant has happened!  I have been very impatiently waiting to start my period so we can schedule the medical screening.  They like to schedule in the middle of the cycle so they can see how thick the lining gets on it's own.  That finally happened and I am scheduled to appear on the 17th of June.  I haven't received my travel information yet but I assume I'll be flying to LA on the 16th, have my appointment on the 17th and fly back that day,  then back to work the day after.  My plan is to not miss any days of work for the medical screening appointment, there will be no avoiding missing some work for the transfer though.  I've spoken to my lawyer that is appointed to me by my agency about the contract, so that was reviewed made a few changes, and sent back for my IP to review and see if he agrees. I haven't spoken to my IP for several weeks, it's very different than last time.  We talked all the time, less in the beginning, but more after I was actually pregnant.  I've decided it really doesn't matter, he had a hard time with his previous attempt at surrogacy so I figure maybe he's trying not to get attached until he knows it's going to work out?  And if that's not the case and he just doesn't want to communicate much than that's ok too.  I want him to be involved as much as he wants to be involved.  I have lots of support on my end so I'm good.  I'm just excited to get this party started, so I can be done!  This WILL be my last surrogacy, unless my last IP's decide they want another (HAHA they have 3 boys now) but I would do one more for them if they wanted me to.  Speaking of them, my daughter leaves to visit them in Sweden in about 5 weeks, I am so excited for her (and a little jealous) mostly excited! They've planed to get married in Rome on her birthday, while she's there.  So exciting!!!  I'll also get to see one of them when my daughter fly's out I'm excited about that also.  We're meeting in Dallas and he's going to fly there with her.
I'm not excited about starting all the meds I'm gonna have to take though, I have a sneaking suspicion I'm gonna have to do the IM injections this time which I can give myself a shot, that's not the problem, it's the everyday shot and my booty is gonna be super sore!  I can and will do it if necessary, just nervous about it.  Hopefully, the process will be a little more exciting now and I'll be posting more now. We shall see!

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